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Trust & safety — operator orientation

Orientation for anyone who touches safety@, moderation, or user distress—separate from the media licensing track but sometimes linked (e.g. harassment built around a letter).

Golden line: Dear Nobody is not a crisis service, not a court, and not a substitute for law enforcement when someone is in immediate danger.

Public anchors

Intake habits

  1. Acknowledge receipt when your process requires it (even a short “we received this”).
  2. Do not promise outcomes you cannot control (“we will definitely remove…”); say you’re reviewing per Guidelines/Terms.
  3. Preserve context—thread ID, timestamps, URLs—especially if counsel or LE may become involved.
  4. Separate emotional support from policy: be kind, then be accurate. Link Crisis when appropriate.

When safety overlaps media

Example: a writer reports a YouTube video that reads their letter in a harassing context. That may involve safety@ triage and a check in media@ for whether a license ever existed. Use Escalation matrix; do not let two teammates contradict each other in separate threads—internal coordination first.

CSAM / imminent harm

Follow your legal obligations and the site’s CSAM & mandatory reporting section. If you are not trained for this, your only job is to notify the designated person immediately and preserve material per policy—do not investigate alone.